Today, we will be discussing casual sex friends. What are casual sex buddies? These are people you just want to have sex, without strings attached. Because you weren’t friends before having sex together, and won’t be friends again after that, it’s not friendship with benefits. It’s not a relationship, as you have no romantic or intimate connection beyond the bedroom. This arrangement with sex friends can quickly become complicated because there are no rules or guidelines. We are here to help you understand the rules and guidelines of sex buddies.
Dos:
1. Respect each other.
Although your relationship is purely sex, it doesn’t mean that you should treat them as garbage. Although emotions should not be involved, it doesn’t mean that you have to be rude or disrespectful of each other. Everyone has their limits, even sex friends. Respect each other no matter what. This means you should not say anything degrading, spread rumors about sex, or show or share nudes that you have received. It’s simple. No respect, no sex.
2. Look at other people.
Don’t be tied down by a sex friend. It’s not a relationship that you should emotionally or romantically invest in. This nonsense is only for relationships and relationships! You don’t have to be a sexy buddy, but it is a good idea! The more the merrier. Your sex buddy won’t hold back and we can assure you. While we don’t recommend that you bang anyone in public, it is a good idea to not be influenced by your sex buddy. Do not let your sex friend stop you from meeting someone.
3. Be honest.
Because there are so many stakes, it is more difficult to be honest with your partner. It’s not worth putting yourself in danger of getting into an argument or hurting the feelings of another person. You should be open with your sexy friend. You don’t like what they do in bed? You can tell them. Do you not want them to have a sleepover? Tell them. Are you hungry? Tell them. Do you want to end your relationship with them? SPEAK TO THEM. Because you aren’t invested in anything, you have nothing to lose by sex friends. It should not be awkward or embarrassing to bring up something with your sex friend. Sex friendships don’t last very long so be open and honest.
4. Try it out in bed.
The situation you are in with your sex friend is strictly about sex. I’m not going to tell you how stupid you are. If all you guys do is bang together, why not try something new and be creative? You don’t have to do it alone. Open-mindedness is key to attempting things that you would never normally do. This could include trying new sex positions or toys. It is important to be comfortable and open-minded.
Don’ts:
1. Go on dates.
Sex friends are not for dating or relationships. Even if the date is just for breakfast, it could send mixed signals to one of the parties or increase feelings. You should just keep your feelings to yourself and not share them with anyone else. You’re not looking for anything more than that? Dates are intended to create connection, to get to know each other, and to move the relationship forward. These things shouldn’t and won’t happen with your sex friend.
2. Sleepover or a cuddle.
You don’t want to or should form an emotional attachment with your sex friend. Cuddling and sleeping over is intimate. It will also strengthen your emotional connection to the person. This should be avoided at all cost. These things should be left to girlfriends or boyfriends. It is not possible to develop feelings or an emotional attachment for your sex friend. Even though cuddling and sleepovers may seem small, they are crucial if you don’t want to be attached or send the wrong signals.
3. Allow them to become part of your personal life.
Your friends and parents should not know about your sex friend. The only reason you are connected is sex. It will complicate the situation and make it seem more like a relationship than just sex friends if they are allowed to be involved with other people, besides your roommates. You don’t want to create any grey areas. Sex buddies should be a black-and-white concept. You shouldn’t do it with your friend if you wouldn’t do it with a girlfriend or boyfriend (aside from sex). How would you introduce your sex friend to others? Guys, this is Greg. We have casual sex a few times per week, but I don’t know his origin. Don’t.
4. Don’t get jealous.
As we said, you can still have sex with your friend, but that shouldn’t prevent you from getting involved in the game. This should be agreed upon between you both early on. It shouldn’t just go unspoken, but it should be understood. It would be absurd to make fun of them for having a relationship with someone else at a bar. You shouldn’t get mad at them for going on a date with another person when you are just trying to hookup tonight. You shouldn’t call them for texting others. You need to quickly get out of this situation if you don’t believe you can.