Fuck friends are harder to find than best buddies, but once you do, you will never be the same. There are many rules that friendship is based on, as well as unspoken signs that your guys are meant to be together. No matter how many years we have known them, we all have one friend we cannot live without. They are the friend who knows us better than we do and is there for us in the good and bad. These are 12 signs you’re best friends for life.
1. They won’t judge you.
No matter how embarrassing or horrible you may act, your best friend should not judge you. There’s no place for judgment between you, whether you’re drinking vodka on Monday, getting back with an ex, or haven’t washed in two days. This includes any questionable hookups or binging after a rough week. You can talk to your best friend about any topic and nothing will be judged. This is one of the most important aspects in friendship. This is particularly important for friends who have benefits.
2. They wouldn’t post a negative picture of you.
Your best friend knows better than to post unflattering photos on social media. They don’t want to make you look like a jerk. Because BFFS is a group of people who are always looking for your approval, they will post a questionable photo of you.
3. You have fun with each other.
Two people cannot be best friends if they don’t make fun of each others almost 24/7. Mocking is the best form of flattery. It’s okay to give your BFF grief. If your BFF is causing you grief, they will be the ones to blame. You are the only one who can make fun about them.
4. You can choose to wear clothes.
Your best friends don’t care if you are wearing your birthday suit or your skivvies. It doesn’t really matter. It’s a routine for you and your best friend to enjoy a Friends marathon on a couch all day without wearing pants.
5. There are no borders.
No boundaries means no closed bathrooms, graphic sex talks, or sharing of your darkest secrets. You will know that there is no boundary between you two. You can even talk about your most intimate relationships with the girls and guys you are fucking.
6. The same enemies are at your disposal.
Don’t like someone? Your best friend will not like you. It doesn’t matter if there are explanations or reasons, it’s the way it is. You don’t have to know the reason you are hating someone, but you can accept it and move on. You are sure they would do the exact same for you.
7. You can tell their history by looking at it.
Your best friend knows everything about their past relationships and flings. One night is enough to prove it. Even the name of their first kiss is known from middle school. This information is useful if you have to meet an ex.
8. They allow you to like and comment on social media.
Your best friend will always like and comment on all your social media posts, regardless of how simple they may seem. They won’t let you go if they don’t like one more.
9. You can both drink and eat if one of you wishes.
Are you in the mood for a margarita They are too. Want to order a pizza? They’re down. Your best friend will always share your drinking and eating habits with you, no matter what time it is.
10. Talking about your family and friends is a common habit.
Your best friend knows everything about your mom, Sam, Sam’s crazy habits, and your sibling. Talking about crap is like a hobby between you two at this point.
11. You can argue.
It is rare for friends to be genuine and maintain a good friendship. The two of you aren’t afraid or ashamed to share your feelings with each other, which can sometimes lead to friction. Because you are comfortable enough to disagree, best friends can argue and disagree every day. You guys can always come to an agreement.
12. They won’t babysit.
Your best friend is not someone who makes you drink less or talks you into having a date with random people at bars. They know that they are not your babysitter; they are your friend. So they allow you to do what you want when you want.
13. They are always truthful.
No matter what, your best friend will always tell you the truth. It’s all for your good. They’ll let you know if it’s your terrible outfit, bad haircut, or ugly hookup from Saturday.
14. It is possible to spend up to 48 hours together without feeling smothered.
Spending more time together is better. It’s possible to spend as much time together as 48 hours and not feel exhausted. You don’t have to leave if it becomes too much.
15. Enjoy the most wonderful time together
You have to have fun together. You will always have fun, no matter if you are on vacation, in a club or studying.